remember oneself
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Definition
Verb phrase: - To regain one's composure, proper manners, or sense of decorum after a lapse in behavior; to stop acting in an inappropriate, rude, or uncontrolled manner.
Usage
This phrase is used as an imperative command or a piece of advice, typically directed at someone who is behaving badly, emotionally, or in a socially unacceptable way. It urges the person to recall their usual, better self and act accordingly.
Examples
- After shouting at the waiter, his wife whispered, "Remember yourself! This is not how we behave in public."
- "Remember yourself, young lady," her grandfather said calmly when she began to interrupt. "We listen when others are speaking."
- He was about to make a sarcastic remark but stopped and remembered himself, offering a polite apology instead.
Advanced Usage
- The phrase implies a temporary loss of one's normal character or social training. It suggests the person knows better and is being called upon to consciously return to that standard.
- It is often used in formal or semi-formal contexts where decorum is expected.
Variants and Related Words
- Compose oneself: To become calm after being upset or agitated.
- Collect oneself: To regain control of one's emotions or thoughts.
Synonyms
- Behave
- Compose oneself
- Control oneself
- Mind one's manners
Related Idioms
- Mind your P's and Q's: To be careful about one's behavior and manners.
- Be on one's best behavior: To act as politely and properly as possible.
Verb
- recover one's good manners after a lapse or stop behaving badly
- Please remember yourself, Charles!